Not likewise Westerners, Asians are believed to praise the cult of “introversion.” If in the West the successful and open for relationships person is an extrovert, in Japan it is more common to respect calm and thoughtful people.
Here we are going to look at all the cultural difficulties that the foreigner may encounter when trying to build relationships with beautiful and tender ladies from Japan.
Finding a perfect match in the nation of timid people
Sure enough, not every girl in Japan is shy to make new acquaintances, so you may try going to popular cafes, visit art-galleries or music concerts. As usual, everything starts with small talk and a drink.
However, you should be ready for unpredicted situations: you might feel rejected even though you won’t be indeed. It is uncommon in Japan to fully express one’s emotions.
So to get more you should not rely on the gestures of Japanese beauties. Therefore, focus on what they say. It will be way easier for you to find an ideal match through special online dating applications or sites which are on the spike in Japan nowadays.
Online dating is the good option for you as on specialized site you will find a girl who is looking for relationships and will be more open for interacting with you.
Communication in Japan where “yes” means “no”
Before you start talking with a Japanese beauty (even through a dating app or an online dating site), make sure you understand basic Japanese communicational traits.
First of all, Japanese often say “yes” when it means “no.” This is a part of their culture. Japanese people do not want to make other people feel uncomfortable and try to please them before themselves.
When you start dating a Japanese sweetheart, always take her answer with a grain of salt and observe her behavior. Maybe, it will turn out that she is reluctant to go out with you next time.
Secondly, sometimes silence in Japan may mean “yes.” So also take it into account.
Ultimately, you should consider the last obstacle on your way to getting an ideal Japanese partner, and that is a language barrier.
The majority of the Japanese people see foreigners only when they go abroad. Thus, not so many of them speak other languages apart from Japanese. Sure, they may study other languages within the country, so you might be lucky of finding a girl who does. Or might not.
Hence, be ready to study Japanese. If you are not ready to accept that challenge, resort to the services of a translator or interpreter. By the way, if you decide to start dating a Japanese girl online, you should not worry at all. Lots of online dating sites provide such services so that potential love-birds could learn about each other more.
So as you can see, it is easier to date Japanese girls if you speak Japanese and understand hidden body language signs. If you don’t, we advise you to try out online dating in Japan.